Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about.
Welp today’s the last day of this and thank goodness because I’m feeling a little burnt out.
My Master thinks I should write about how the last time we had sex he fucked me so hard my pussy was sore for a couple days (it was pretty hot, especially because he’s usually a bit more… reserved? but he was thrusting his cock into me hard and fast, making me whimper and scream and come and come and come), but I just want to share some of my top 5 fave kink blogs that I’m sure y’all are already following, but if not you should be.
So, in no particular order:
So seriously, if you’re not following them already you must be new here? so go check ‘em out.
Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)? What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?
Not officially, by my Master does quite often call me his dirty little slut, which I love love love.
In general, I think titles can add another dimension to play, and also help separate your play from your day-to-day life (unless you’re 24/7 I guess).
Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play? What significance does your attire have to you?
I don’t dress a specific way, but I do always try to look good for my Master.
Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?
Well, more like my kinky activities find their way into my non-kink interests, ie blogging. I can’t really think of anything that goes the other way around. We haven’t done a Slave Leia roleplay yet. ;)
Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play?
I think it’s a great temporary solution when you can’t be together, but I’d never want online play to be my only BDSM release long-term. And I mean, I live on the internet. I want to be a digital librarian. I get giddy when I find out I can do something online that I thought I had to do face-to-face or even over the phone. I had a strictly online/phone relationship when I was a teenager and I know people still do it, even in the kink community, but everything is just so much better in person. Sure, my Master can tell me to spank myself, but there’s no comparison to how it feels when he flips me over and spanks me himself. Or when he grabs my hair to pull my ear to his mouth so he can whisper that I’m his good little slut, unf. He can relay the words over text message or even on our cam chats, but it’s really not the same.
Day 25: How open are you about your kinks?
I would say I’m fairly open. I have a few friends who I feel comfortable talking to about my sex life, so they know all about it. I have a bad habit of oversharing so they probably know more than they’d like. My best friend even has the link to this blog (as does my boyfriend’s— hey, by the way). I’ve also been honest when asked what I was into, because I think being open and unashamed is the first step to having great sex.
Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner?
Welp I’m pretty much just going to describe my Master, so:
I want a partner who is funny, intelligent, handsome as fuck, trustworthy and trusting, a little geeky, and adventurous (both in and out of our sex life). And who can fuck my brains out.
Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? How so?
My interests have definitely expanded. I originally was only into spanking and maybe light bondage and now I’ve been exploring and loving the Dom/sub dynamic. I’ve also gotten more open to trying new things so maybe my interests will keep growing.
Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy? How does it differ from a vanilla relationship?
I guess the obvious answers are communication and trust. I don’t know if those things are necessarily more important in a BDSM relationship than a vanilla one, but we may rely on them in a different way. Also I kinda think we’re better at realizing how important they are. Fuck, there I go being smug again.
