Legit friend-zone shit on my dash (TW: rape)
This is just your friendly reminder that men use the term friend-zone to rape women and you are NOT, as a man, allowed to reclaim it.
Period.
Even if you’ve heard a woman use the phrase once.
When shit like this exists (HUGE TRIGGER WARNING FOR RAPE), you lose your right to throw this word around.
If you choose to use it, you are an asshole who supports rape culture.
Please, please, please stop.
Check your damn privilege as a female who will never experience the friend zone.
I don’t think you understand - a majority of men do not think it is okay to rape and if you’re getting butthurt over a damned rage comic, then get the fuck off the internet.
Females don’t fucking understand the frustration, the depression and the desperation of the friend zone. It’s the worst goddamned place to be - especially if you’re lead on.
Seriously. Check your fucking privilege.
Do you know what’s an even worse place to be in than the friend zone? A place where you’re getting raped.
You have no idea what the term “privilege” means, do you?
kbai
Wow. A Libertarian man telling us to “check our privilege” because we object to a comic about being brutally raped.
“It’s the worst goddamned place to be”
now THAT
THAT
is some privileged bullshit. If you honestly think the worst place in the world to be is a straight man whose crush won’t let him fuck her, you are privileged in so many ways that I can’t even begin to name them.
-Jess
I am so mad about this right now. I AM SO MAD. Like, sorry I’m not sorry that this isn’t my usual sexy bullshit and I can’t let this go.
As a woman who has experienced both the friend-zone and rape I can tell you that being raped is much worse than being friend-zoned. Let’s talk about frustration, depression, and desperation. No fucking comparison, dude. GTFO the Internet. I also know what it’s like to be romantically led-on to be used for sex. I don’t think I’m the only woman who has ever been stuck in the “fuck-buddy-zone.”
Yes, I friend-zone people. I’ll admit, sometimes I friend-zone people because making someone want me and telling them they can’t have me is the only time I get to feel powerful in a fucking society where a comic like that is made and defended. But mostly I friend-zone people because even though I tell them not to take my brand of friendliness seriously and I tell them I love my boyfriend and/or that I’m not interested, they can only see me as something that can be fucked. That is not my fucking problem.
Source: greaterandmoreterrible
When I was strapped into the spreader bar I fell over onto my side and couldn’t get back up so just laid there trying to squirm around, laughing hysterically, until my boyfriend put me upright again.
I’ve got charm 4 dayz.
Q:How are you a pain in the ass? Are you into pegging?
Anonymous
No, I can just be super distracted and I don’t take “scenes” seriously and I giggle a lot and say random awkward things and I yawn and belch and roll around and act ridiculous. I’m also pretty lazy and I don’t like being on top. I think I am submissive just so I can be tied up and fucked without doing any work.
So I get a lot of messages from dudes
who say they want to fuck me and who sometimes go into great detail about how they would fuck me and I always just think, “Lol, you guys have no idea what a pain in the ass I am to fuck.”
Him: You should punish yourself now. 5 times close to orgasm, then have a really good one thinking of my cock in your throat.
Me: Baby, I live in a constant state of close to orgasm.
Do you ever think that you look super cute and sexy when you hula-hoop and then you take a video of it and you are horrified because you never knew you were the worst hula-hooper in the world?
I like being called:
- little slut
- good girl
but not:
- little girl.
I also like being called:
- gorgeous
- stunning
- sexy
- cute
- pretty
- bangable
- hot
but not:
- beautiful.
Q:your on okcupid? isn't that a dating site, cause I thought you had a bf? or you guys not in a committed relationship or something like that?
I am on OkCupid to:
- find friends
- stalk friends
- stalk my friends’ dates
- answer match questions/take quizzes to waste time
- receive lots of messages about how pretty I am
Also from now on when people ask me what I do I’m going to tell them I’m a nudes blogger.
“Oh wow, a news blogger? That’s awesome,” they’ll trill, thinking I’m doing something significant with my life.
“No,” I’ll say, with a roll of my eyes. “A nude-z blogger. Obviously.”
I’ve been a schmoozy nudes blogger for too long.
I’m starting to be nice to people on OkCupid.
